https://www.salon.com/2022/11/06/why-are-so-many-young-people-are-having-less-and-fewer-friendships/

[F]ar-right figures [...] have painted this phenomenon as a crisis of masculinity (even though under-35 women seem to having equally little sex).

Nearly 60 years ago, C. Wright Mills encouraged that we understand this kind of aggregated social data not as the result of personal failings, but as public issues that can be explained by looking to larger historical and structural relationships. When we look at other data points like the graph below, we find that it is not merely sexual relationships that are on the decline, but also friendships. This, from a sociological standpoint, reveals that there is something larger going on here. Untangling it means we must look at the at the larger economic, cultural, and political changes.

[A] bleak outlook brought on by economic conditions, changing social norms as a result of new communications technologies, and just simply feeling as though one doesn't have enough time to invest in their personal relationships. Thus, if we really do see this as a serious issue, then we need to make changes at a variety of levels.

  • Quimby [any, any]
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    2 years ago

    yeah, I feel like I've kind of reached that point. I was very late to dating and sex, and I was extremely jealous of everyone that was out there having sex. Now, after being married and having had sex constantly, I still have a strong sex drive, but it's really just a biological need, almost like sleep. I'm starting to date again, and I really don't care whether I have sex with the people I end up dating. What I want is emotional intimacy, the company, someone who can make me laugh, etc.