It would help if you talked to me like I'm dumb.

I might lose a male friend because they could be getting romantically attached to me after I talked to them just like they're a girl.

I grew up around mostly girls and women to the point I don't fully get why I can't tell guy friends I love them. I kept telling one "I love ya dude!" To me, that sounds the same as "I love you as a friend!"

I thought spelling "you" as "ya" and adding the word "dude" firmly said "you're in the friend-zone." But no.

This is easily not the only example of where I fucked up, but I won't know unless it's pointed out to me and explained.

I'm furious that I live in a society :amerikkka: where I can't just tell guy friends that I love them.

    • HexaSnoot [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      I told him he has cuddly vibes because he's so sweet. (Maybe a mistake.) He soon sent me a link to a love song mentioning cuddling. (Lyrics) It can be about a best friend, but we've never cuddled.

      This guy hangs out with me and my bf. When I miss him, I try to mention that me and my bf both miss him. Sometimes I think I've mentioned my bf enough to not say "WE miss you!" And I just say "I miss you!" (Maybe also a mistake.)