A lot of the time part of that fantasy involves wanting the out-of-league-and-much-younger feeemale to see the ego-insert middle-aged power fantasy boot-brained dudebro as both a fuck buddy and a father figure.

Yes yes I try not to kink shame if two consenting adults are actually into that, but for most authors that do that it's just them cranking it figuratively onto the page and it screams of a one-sided blend of sexual pathology and angst about their own children or lack thereof. :grillman: :libertarian-alert: