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My girlfriend and I have been talking about entering an open relationship the last 3 years. We’ve been together for 6 and had our ups and downs but we’ve been really solid the last two years. We love each other and I say our relationship is strong.
The last week, we’ve been laying ground rules for potentially opening up our relationship. We want to keep it very casual with other people.
Anyone willing to share their experience both good or bad?
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We don’t want to add partners but have casual dates with randoms because of jealousy/emotion. But it’s still very risky.
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That’s something we’ll think about. Adding partners is not what we’re looking for and is much more risky in my opinion. We’re mostly looking for casual fun.
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Is there swinger practice that isn't unavoidably inflected with married middle class boomers and gen-Xers?
not that there's anything wrong with that
Other than the 500% STD rate.
I don't see how you avoid coming to view someone you're physically involved with as sort of a partner. Even a casual non primary relationship takes emotional maintenance...right? Kind of? I'm not cut out for it probably. Good luck