But I also know that I don’t want to be this way because I also hate ppl who make life into an oppression olympics. But I also don’t know how. Any suggestions?
Practical advice: think about a time when you believed something shitty and then changed your mind. I had a lot of chances to quit eating meat and pretty much ignored everyone who told me to stop til my brain clicked a certain way one day and I could internalize it as my idea. If your ex-friends' posts are genuine, they've done the same thing and you may be able to relate to them that way.
I would also be frustrated in your place. I know intellectually that people's beliefs are heavily influenced by their economic position, but it would feel really invalidating to have seen them ignore what you were telling them and now "believe" it based on workplace experience or twitter posts or whatever. Not sure that it'll be healthy for you to engage with em.
That definitely helps, though it also makes me hate myself more because I’ve had some shit takes lol.
Don't hate yourself for becoming a better person. Unless you've actively harmed a specific person and need to make amends, the only penance you need to do is living your values.
Practical advice: think about a time when you believed something shitty and then changed your mind. I had a lot of chances to quit eating meat and pretty much ignored everyone who told me to stop til my brain clicked a certain way one day and I could internalize it as my idea. If your ex-friends' posts are genuine, they've done the same thing and you may be able to relate to them that way.
I would also be frustrated in your place. I know intellectually that people's beliefs are heavily influenced by their economic position, but it would feel really invalidating to have seen them ignore what you were telling them and now "believe" it based on workplace experience or twitter posts or whatever. Not sure that it'll be healthy for you to engage with em.
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don't worry comrade we're both bad in ways we haven't even realized yet. the awful experience of growing only ends when you die
sounds lame
just be correct now
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:gigachad-hd:
Don't hate yourself for becoming a better person. Unless you've actively harmed a specific person and need to make amends, the only penance you need to do is living your values.