Yeah that sucks. You're going to have different politics from those people in your life who are in different material circumstances. The urgency of your politics will be different as well. I'd advise you to try and stop caring about it so much. Politics isn't done as a series of arguments where the best ideas win; it's more about organizing groups of people whose interests are already in alignment. In my life I have found that doing politics in a party organization has made me less resentful and less annoying. The energy I used to spend arguing with friends and family or worrying about whether they have the correct opinions can now be directed to more constructive efforts with likeminded comrades. It does take a lot of effort to do party politics though. If you're struggling in your life the last thing you need is more meetings.