Do it all for yourself, not a hypothetical girlfriend. Hygiene. Be healthy for yourself. If you buy trendy clothing you will need to keep buying clothes, or end up looking outdated. If you can afford it and enjoy fashion, go crazy. If you want low maintenance aim for classic styles and just focus on the fit and colors.
Dating apps can trash your mental health if you aren't doing a lot of self care. Consider just staying off dating apps altogether. Try to get together with people irl, go to stuff if you're invited. If you hang out with people who are in relationships they might try to set you up with their friends. Try to have fun and laugh, be funny and kind.
Do it all for yourself, not a hypothetical girlfriend. Hygiene. Be healthy for yourself. If you buy trendy clothing you will need to keep buying clothes, or end up looking outdated. If you can afford it and enjoy fashion, go crazy. If you want low maintenance aim for classic styles and just focus on the fit and colors.
Dating apps can trash your mental health if you aren't doing a lot of self care. Consider just staying off dating apps altogether. Try to get together with people irl, go to stuff if you're invited. If you hang out with people who are in relationships they might try to set you up with their friends. Try to have fun and laugh, be funny and kind.
rip i don't care about myself enough for that and adhd or whatever makes that shit impossible
yeah there's better ways to self-harm if you want to self harm
Covid, winter, money.