I'm not totally sure how to word this one well, but you will be put into situations where the path of least resistance is gonna be going along with some super toxic masculinity, the path of most resistance will have you belittled and ostracized at best and the shit kicked out of you at worst, here's the middle ground: absolutely biting sarcasm. Don't explain to dudes on their smoke break why how they're talking about women is bad and disrespectful, bully them about it. Bros live and die by the Own, their current Philosopher King is the person who has just dispensed the best burn. This requires already being confident, quick witted and funny but I get the furthest by just being a sarcastic insulting prick about their behavior cause it's the language they speak. Some may come around to the point you can treat them like adults and the rest will at least know to knock it off when you're around.