i'm not a wizard but i am dying in the desert over here. It's not possible to recreate the social conditions I was in before and I don't want to meet anyone who would be looking in the usual places at this time of year in this part of the country... in fact i want to leave but i'm stuck because of poverty so even if i thought it was possible to get specific useful advice in good faith from such a generic question I'm not in a position to act on it.