like, flaccid button and hard slightly under average at best. There is a lot of hateful comments here that make me feel like shit. Please stop. Not every comrade with a penis has a good one. I'm tired of being reminded I can't pleasure partners if I ever stop being such a loser I can't get a partner. Honestly, I don't even try. Button dick stops me. Can we please at least stop the ableism here? I feel enough pain constantly going "oh I want to ask her out.... oh wait, I can't please her" already.

  • Shoegazer [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    I agree, although I have to say most of the bald threads I’ve seen was asking about how to style or preserve the little bit of hair left, so advising to shave it is good advice.

    But if someone is simply venting and you’re giving a bunch of advice, especially from a point of never having to experience it, it comes off as trivializing

    • RION [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      There are two threads I recall but can't remember the state of the Op's hair. You're right that past a certain point shaving is the best move (save the mildly unsettling hair plugs that I doubt many people on here could afford) but the monolithic fashion in which it was suggested put me off a little