Yeah don't get me wrong I'm not saying that's how it is for all of these kids, or for you personally, however you turn out is completely fine. It's just messy because the far right capitalise on it and basically all of them are super vulnerable teens who are exploring gender and sexuality and getting ANY attention that affirms them as attractive is all that's necessary to start getting them to dance to whatever tune they want. It's real actual grooming and it's fucking gross.