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  • AppelTrad [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    I really do not think upbears remove the ability to have in-depth conversations, but they are a friendly reminder that there are other people interacting even if they aren't actively conversing.

      • AppelTrad [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        You might not think it friendly, but I do.

        Do you really think that I don't have a basis for giving upbears? Are you really trying to insult my motives, or are you just not thinking about why I think something?

        The most upbeared comments I've seen have been on long, incredibly educating posts, so I think your sampling method may be biased.

        And what the hell is wrong with "expressing vague approval"? Should every one of our interactions be dour, interminable discussions?

          • AppelTrad [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            Assuming hostility from everyone and everything is pretty corrosive to actual discussion too.

            And how, exactly, do upbears "enforce" a posting style hostile to non-cynical discussion? You keep making this assertion but, if it were actually true, there'd be nothing else here. That isn't the case, though, is it?

            [T]he problem with upbears is that you don’t have to express [your reasons for them].

            Why should we be forced to? When I smile in response to someone, it'd be quite strange to then explain my reasons for doing so.

            I also don’t get the chance to express my own thoughts.

            Who is stopping you? Not anyone here.

            I think it is telling that most arguments against removing them have been short and lacking any real basis or reason.

            Lacking any real basis or reason? Really?