• MemesAreTheory [he/him, any]
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    2 years ago

    It's their business regardless. If you're going to start taking away agency from 18 year olds, then we should shift the voting age higher too because that's too young to make those kinds of decisions.

    Adulthood vs. childhood is always going to face a fuzzy boundary and any line is going to be arbitrary for one reason or another. At a certain point, we have to consider people full legal persons with rights and responsibilities, and that includes the right to make mistakes. I think more restrictions and involving criminal systems is more likely to hurt than help. Affect this by way of social stigmatization, not legality.

    • fratsarerats [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      I think more restrictions and involving criminal systems is more likely to hurt than help. Affect this by way of social stigmatization, not legality.

      Yeah it's funny seeing some here getting all "tough on crime" when it comes to this issue

    • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Affect this by way of social stigmatization, not legality

      A powerful rich man is above any social stigmatization an average person could level. Social stigma can only be used against people in your community

      • MemesAreTheory [he/him, any]
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        2 years ago

        Then that's a separate issue now isn't it? :gui-better: That's the point of a more equitable world - where people aren't grossly more powerful than others.

        • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          ok but I was talking about how people should behave in the world we live in now not the world after we achieve socialism.

          • MemesAreTheory [he/him, any]
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            2 years ago

            Ah so we're talking about the actual world. Then we should take into account the idea of increasing the power of policing and disproportionate impact of that on the poor and already marginalized.

            People see rich and famous taking advantage of this because that's a system perpetuated, largely, by capitalism and massive social inequality. Same on the more pedestrian level. It's usually wealth and status that attract younger folks to an older partner. These are the same folks who get away with murder and aren't policed because they're white and well off already. Advocating for illegality is increasing a police state without actually hurting the people we consider unethical

            • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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              2 years ago

              it might just be a different experience of police but I've found that police take little or no interest in enforcing this sort of law. It's like how domestic abuse laws don't really get enforced even though they exist on paper.

              I was not proposing making it a criminal act for the young women to be in these relationships but the older men