• American_Badass [none/use name]
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    2 years ago

    This shit really bothers me. I grew up in a big family, spent most of my childhood in a single wide, we all lived in a studio apartment for a while, and my parents worked like dogs. And they would splurge whatever they had on dumb shit for us.

    I can remember a family member being critical when mom got us a snes, lmao. Sorry, but those few hundred bucks weren't getting us out of poverty. Shoutout to mom for probably putting that on a credit card that never got paid.

    • DoubleShot [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Sorry, but those few hundred bucks weren’t getting us out of poverty.

      The idea of "economic rationality" itself is kinda sus but still, this thinking is totally rational and reasonable. I feel like I've heard smart people who study poverty say the same thing. What's the point of saving money here and there when you're poor in the US? Any bit that you save is either not going to make a real impact (like what are you gonna do when you're poor, save all that extra money in a 401k for retirement?) or it's gonna get taken away from you via fines, medical bills, etc. Might as well make life a little more bearable.

      It's all because capitalist society wants you to feel bad for using any of "their" (the capitalists) money to sustain yourself - food stamps, medicaid, etc. That money your folks spent on an snes - well to them that's money they could have used instead of you "taking money from the taxpayers". It's not because they think you should save wisely out of a spirit of thriftyness as a virtue, but because they just think you're taking "their" money. And this thinking has been so effective in dividing the working class, I've even seen it in people who are still poor but not as poor as other people. It's so gross, death to America etc etc.

      • leninmaycry [he/him, comrade/them]
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        1 year ago

        The less you eat, drink, buy books, go to the theatre or to balls, or to the pub, and the less you think, love, theorize, sing, paint, fence, etc., the more you will be able to save and the greater will become your treasure which neither moth nor rust will corrupt—your capital. The less you are, the less you express your life, the more you have, the greater is your alienated life and the greater is the saving of your alienated being.

        :marx-hi:

    • StellarTabi [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      when mom got us a snes

      they sneer at the ticket price, but are damned fools to ignore the marginal utility.

    • Mardoniush [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      Yeah, our family wasn't like this, but we had lean times occasionally. Shoutout to parents who spend their one night a month date money on useless crap just because it lights up their kids' faces.

      • American_Badass [none/use name]
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        2 years ago

        I don't want to exaggerated our situation, I had a lovely childhood and we ate every night, but yeah. I would do the same thing my folks did. There's no light at the end of the tunnel, anyhow.