I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but there’s no magic bullet that makes this easy. But, just sending a message isn’t asking her to marry you, and the more comfortable you get initiating the easier it will get for you, which is important because in cishet courtship & relationships the guy is expected to initiate almost 100% of the time.
I know this isn’t what you want to hear, but there’s no magic bullet that makes this easy. But, just sending a message isn’t asking her to marry you, and the more comfortable you get initiating the easier it will get for you, which is important because in cishet courtship & relationships the guy is expected to initiate almost 100% of the time.