it’s bad for everyone.

    • FreakingSpy [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      When I'm using Tinder, I completely delete and remake my account every few weeks because the app gives a massive boost to your visibility for the first few days so you get more matches and get addicted to it. After that your matches slow down and you are incentivized to pay for "premium" features like... More visibility.

      For an average-looking guy, it makes a big difference

      • ClimateChangeAnxiety [he/him, they/them]
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        2 years ago

        I did this too, and it has the funny side effect of matching with the same handful of people every time, and exchanging a couple “How’ve you been?” Messages before still not going on a date

        • bigboopballs [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          and exchanging a couple “How’ve you been?” Messages before still not going on a date

          I guess they are waiting for you to make the first move. lol