it’s bad for everyone.

  • eXAt [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    I actually met someone I matched with on tinder for the first time yesterday and it was a pretty boring meeting.

    I've decided my new tinder strategy is to cut the crap and just ask the person out as soon as possible.

    But yeah also all those apps I think make people antisocial

    • mkultrawide [any]
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      2 years ago

      I’ve decided my new tinder strategy is to cut the crap and just ask the person out as soon as possible.

      Literally the only good strategy for a man on dating apps. It filters out any women just looking for attention. Ask them out for a low stakes date like grabbing coffee or a drink at a bar.

      • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Even if they have the best of intentions, it's best to ask them on a low-stakes date at the end of your initial conversation. Until you meet someone in person you aren't going to know if you'll hit it off no matter how much texting you do. All waiting does is delay the "do we like each other in the flesh?" moment.