One of my customers has a cleaning crew come through once a week and his wife leaves while they're there because it makes her too uncomfortable.
That is so much weirder than just appreciating their labor and giving a good tip, beer, or food.
I kind of get it I would definitely feel very weird about having a servant in the house
Yeah it's not something I would ever consider. I just try to be less messy if I get tired of cleaning up after myself.
Honestly mood
But I think it's also mostly just I want to be left alone sooner so I can just start eating in peace
Honestly, I'm in a state where of you're caught with any alcohol in your system on shift you're going to jail and being fined so I only know about the mythical "buying shots for the waiter" second hand.