I know "power dynamics" is said as a dismissive meme here, but this is shit is nooo goood. :no-copyright:

    • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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      2 years ago

      Vulnerability and power is a good point.

      But there is still a very common trend of sexual relationships where one party is for the "consumption" of the other. Class and age and social status and neurotype all play into this. I think it would be a mistake to not at least use some quantifiable factors as heuristics.