well in that case, i don't think it necessarily "counts", either. people experiment. i see a lot of women in the lesbian community that are firmly lesbian now, but have been with guys in the past. some of that is just bi erasure, some is simply being fed up with men and male dating habits when you're more into women anyway, but a lot of it isn't. people actually do try things and end up just not liking them. i think that idea that doing (gay thing) once and forever having the gay just doesn't work out irl. i wouldn't say it makes men more straight, tho, just that they know from personal experience it isn't their thing.