You can't say you hate something if you've never tried it. Why doesn't this apply to sucking dick? I say that if you suck dick once and decide you don't like it that is more straight than never trying dick because that means deep down you might have a hankering for dick that you don't know about because you have never tried dick
It's pretty sus if a "straight" man refuses to suck a cock. What are you afraid of, that you'd enjoy it too much? If it really doesn't do anything for you, you should be comfortable with doing it as a good way to kill time and get closer to your bros.
Straight male being some kind of hallowed, coveted orientation whose attainment requires constant upkeep and performance drives me up a wall. Like drinking pink lemonade and wiping your ass makes you gay. :leslie-feinberg: 's work when TC69 wanted everyone to read it helped me be more acutely aware about what a fuckin normal one everyone around us is having about sexuality.
Do what you gotta do, do what you like. I'm not about to try and differentiate broke straight from woke straight from bespoke straight. I know we're memeing but I hate those shit, comrade.
So he’d sucked hundreds of dicks, identified as straight and knew it wasn’t his thing.
That swinger snatch must be amazing...
That's hundreds of different ones. So my man is living his best life.
Also it kinda is. These are women who practice, know what they want and enthusiastic about mutual laid.
damn that's psychoanalysis paydirt right there not just on the hundred-dicksucker's side
like what's with 'preferences with the wife' like if a dude sucks a dick then he fucks your wife its different cause he's... gay? :think-mark:
or even better 'i wasn't okay with my wife doing bondage until the other guy gave me nice head' thats like :galaxy-brain:
Turns out if you suck somebody's dick they like and trust you more. Not really rocket science
Giving someone head is a submissive act. It probably helps the guys feel more secure in the hierarchy so they're not as anxious about their wife doing more intimate things, or less tightly controlled things, with the third.
any time you're in a position to casually castrate someone i'd say you're the one holding the leash, so to speak
I mean that's how dogs Dom each other. Literally, 'I'm licking your dick!! Your so dommed!!'
Dick is also kind of cheap and easily available. Gotta bring some other qualities to the table.
well sucking girldick is by definition not gay (unless you're a woman, then it's ofc hella gay). doesn't mean you can't dislike dick in general, but that's a question of body type preference, not one of sexual orientation.
ofc if you suck a girl's dick that doesn't say anything about if you'd like a man's dick, they're just different organs on a biological level. they look similar, but taste, smell, texture, function, that's all just not the same for a penis on testosterone and a penis on estrogen. one is a male sex organ, the other one is a rare type of female sex organ.
This is in the context of a man sucking a man's dick. Obviously sucking girldick isn't gay
well in that case, i don't think it necessarily "counts", either. people experiment. i see a lot of women in the lesbian community that are firmly lesbian now, but have been with guys in the past. some of that is just bi erasure, some is simply being fed up with men and male dating habits when you're more into women anyway, but a lot of it isn't. people actually do try things and end up just not liking them. i think that idea that doing (gay thing) once and forever having the gay just doesn't work out irl. i wouldn't say it makes men more straight, tho, just that they know from personal experience it isn't their thing.
In the spirit of "you can't say you don't like something if you've never tried it", I will note that basically zero hexbears here have pledged 20% of their income to me, for life. C'mon. Try it.
I've tried giving away a bunch of my surplus labor value before and it fucking sucks, do not recommend
It's a a perfectly valid question and now I am questioning if this site really is for deep thinkers :soviet-hmm:
Real talk it's... Because you can imagine it beforehand and know ahead of time if you're feeling gay about it or not. What you can't tell is if you like an actual dick in your mouth
You take that back! :soviet-pout:
Unrelated, but does anyone know a good spine specialist?
I don't want to sky dive and have no inclination to try it. It is not a requirement to try something in order to dislike it.
But do whatever makes you happy. That's the most important thing
Okay, but there's a pretty high chance of you dying when you go sky diving, so that's a rational fear. With proper STD testing before hand, there is a zero chance of a facehugger coming through the urethra and eating your organs
The skydiving thing was meant as a metaphor. I couldn't think of a lower stakes example in the moment to demonstrate my reasoning that "don't knock it before you try it" is nonsense. It's not to say that being attracted to the same sex is bad, it's just that if you don't feel attracted to them, you don't need to try it to actually prove the feelings that you already feel. If you feel attraction to someone, you should absolutely convey those feelings to the other person! But you don't have to prove it to anyone
I think being driven to try and suck dick is the gay part. If there's no drive then it's just an action like any other. Like, I enjoy whittling spoons, but I'm not driven to whittle. If I enjoyed sucking dick but wasn't drawn to it I don't think I would be gay.
