How do you feel when a guy is kind of clingy and possesive? I'm the jealous type and I get suspicious and anxious women im dating or want to date don't message or text me back right away.

I often wonder if I have some type of borderline personality disorder, im so immediately afraid of abandonment. Like immediately I assume the worst if I'm not messaged or texted back right away.

Erroneous and somewhat misogynistic thought often says that women are the ones who are clingy, im here to tell you this is not the case lol. I'm just as clingy and workable moreso than any women I've me

I've gotten some good advice in other threads I've made, but I'll be more specific here.

  • artificialset [she/her, fae/faer]
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    2 years ago

    I don't date men, but I also think this issue is gender agnostic tbh. Having things going on in your life is important. If you're genuinely in the middle of something, how would you feel if your partner was upset that you didn't stop what you were doing to respond? It's really important for your partner not to be your entire world. There may be other things going on as well, but that's definitely a big part of it