How do you feel when a guy is kind of clingy and possesive? I'm the jealous type and I get suspicious and anxious women im dating or want to date don't message or text me back right away.
I often wonder if I have some type of borderline personality disorder, im so immediately afraid of abandonment. Like immediately I assume the worst if I'm not messaged or texted back right away.
Erroneous and somewhat misogynistic thought often says that women are the ones who are clingy, im here to tell you this is not the case lol. I'm just as clingy and workable moreso than any women I've me
I've gotten some good advice in other threads I've made, but I'll be more specific here.
This is an absolutely insightful comment and i love you for making it (platonically).
For me btw, being autistic this is even further hardened by the fact that my brain, against my will, translates longer pauses in communication as rejection/disinterest (i am having problems with texting someone with adhd/major executive dysfunction who just completely forgets to text me for days) and it can overwhelm someone pretty easily.