i feel this, i'm not afab but i transitioned right around the age where society largely agrees women and people who look like women should start quietly becoming invisible

flakes has got a point imo: we know this society and its standards are all shit. that's part of why we're communists! though of course that doesn't make getting treated like garbage any more tolerable, i think it's good, maybe even healthy, to remember that society is fucking wrong about most things. and idk about you homie, but i never respect people or institutions that are wrong about almost everything.