( I made the mistake of saying anything positive about the evil countries lol.) So I mentioned off the cuff the new Cuban family code and that led to insanity. Because apparently protections for maybe even things like Poly-amorous relationships is just a gateway to polygamy?! Or can it be used like that? She's an Exmo (so am I) and a woman so I know this can be an issue they make sure of
I got into an argument where they cited the new cuban family code to have protections for Underage Marraiges. It think they used this article, from the fact they told me it was this organization and its the only one: https://www.equalitynow.org/discriminatory_law/cuba_the_family_code/
But if thats the one they were using, (which they got from a mid-argument google search to check up on it), then it was written in 2021. The problem is the family code I was talking about was the rectification made in 2022.
https://nacla.org/cubas-new-family-code-window-political-ecosystem
This argument went on for hours because of this AND THEY WERE USING AN OUT OF DATE ARTICLE THAT DIDN'T EVEN APPLY?!
Granted the way I argued was very shit, I have chosen never to argue ever again, even debates IRL are completely useless. Even if I was right, the way I argued made sure that no one would have cared. It ended with me calling them a spinless centrist with no beliefs, not fun, not good. I'm not out as any gender I want to be yet so i gave the impression of an angry Cis man defending the evil dictatorship's child brides law, but the debate was between two people who are manipulative post-libs who pretend they aren't. Even though my whole arguement was basically that the progressive forces in cuba exist and are powerful, as proven with the new law, and Cuba has a better democratic system. I trust Cuba to have the ability to change such a law if they view it as a problem WHICH THEY FUCKIN DID AND LIED TO ME USING AN OUT OF DATE ARTICLE, unlike the US which they kept comparing to and then get mad when I do the same but make Cuba look better (rightfully, viva fidel).
ALRIGHT
BUT
The fact this was a thing that existed is a rather bad thing, and is there a further problem within the society for it? Some human rights orgs have data on it being a problem: https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/learning-resources/child-marriage-atlas/regions-and-countries/cuba/#:~:text=What's%20the%20prevalence%20rate%3F,union%20before%20their%2018th%20birthday.
Of course it isn't a problem anymore, with a complete ban on all underage marriages without exceptions since the new law, but I'm still on edge.
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It's not, mostly because I'm sincereposting here. In that, perhaps I'm being a shitty rhetorician, but I don't see the point of trying to do a form/content performance online. Also, the online medium doesn't allow for the kind of momentary opportunism that sophistry really thrives in. Hence why I originally mentioned it in the context of offline arguments/discussions, since online one is always communicating at a remove. I will however be lame and use ethos and cite some sources, rather than "visibly grasping at straws" in my reply.
The point that I have the most disagreement with you on is of course the most platonic...
So, let's pause here. If by "weaker" and "stronger" you mean objectively or categorically, then that's just Platonism. I don't really want to go all in on an anti-Platonic debate, so if you're a Platonist let's just call it what it is and call this an impasse.
However, if you mean by "weaker" and "stronger" contingently determined categories, then I think we actually have common ground. In The Electronic Word Richard Lanham describes what he calls "The Q Question" - i.e. is a master of rhetoric a moral or "good" person. He suggests there are two defenses to this apparent problem (and by implication, the weaker/stronger slander).
So, in a nutshell, this is where you're positioning sophistry. It is essentially the "bad" kind of rhetoric that is ornamental, making the weaker stronger and fundamentally concerned with falsehood.
However, Lanham proposes an alternative, "The Strong Defense" that flips the ground. Basically, the very premise of a "weaker" or "stronger" rhetoric is constructed in a rhetorical space and thus is not a "truth" out there, but instead constantly being open to change and shifting positionalities. I'll cite Lanham again here, though I'll also give a tl;dr for folks below. The "No!" and "Yes!" are in reference to the Q Question - "Is a perfect orator a good man as well as a good orator"
So, the sophistic position of the Strong Defense is that the weaker/stronger distinction literally is only determined after one engages in it. To put it in Lanham's terms, you have to make every argument for your sicko defendant even when you know he is guilty because if you cannot be proven wrong, then by the outcome you are not the "weaker" position. And indeed, in a real justice system, this would actually be the case (here's the point when we say death to AmeriKKKa all together and recognize that our system is nothing like the idealized version of law/justice Lanham and Johnson present). Rather than concerning ourselves with abstract conceptions of "Truth" beyond time (yes, even the eternal science of Dialectical Materialism), we can instead perform a "series of shifts" to arrive at a world where we actively re-evaluate our priors in the moment, "kiting checks" instead of "balancing books."
Fundamentally, the idea of the strong defense is that the very categories of "good/bad" "truth/falsehood" etc. are rhetorically determined and situated. The Marxist version of this, by the way, would be something like the dominant ideology of a culture follows from its material conditions. However, if we only concern ourselves with the dominant form of culture (truth), we blind ourselves to emergent and creative possibilities. This isn't to say they will all be right - they won't! I'm a ML for the most part, but if at some point after the revolution our anarchist comrades begin to make the case that we should dissolve the state apparatus and it's a compelling case rooted in strong arguments, why shouldn't we entertain the possibility and creatively imagine the death of the state. (Always :left-unity-4: folks).
I should say here again that we should never be open to fascism in any forms and, "shifting truths" again, as soon as we run into fascistic tendencies it's worth just throwing rhetoric aside and instead switching to violence, total violence (which I suppose is, in a way, a kind of rhetoric too). But when conversing in the real world, it's useful to retain a degree of ideological and rhetorical flexibility (the "openness" I was describing - emptying whatever beliefs you have to meet your audience at their level, even if it's the "weaker" level in your mind). Even if dialectical materialism is the eternal science (and personally, sincereposting again, I think it is!), if we're meeting someone at their level, why not instead appeal to a Christian moralism even if we personally don't believe in Christianity? Or an atheism if we don't believe in it? Fundamentally, your goal is to persuade someone to come to our side, so why not use every appeal and avenue in the book. So what if God is or isn't real? If we arrive with another comrade at our side, does it matter if they arrived through liberation theology or deep atheism? Just like an attorney, what's important is the result.
Again, this is what I mean by "emptying yourself and becoming water" - because while you may hold your deeply held convictions, from the sophistic position (which again, I'm not actually
holdingperforming(edit) right now since I actually believe Lanham's argument) you do what must be done strategically, and in doing so you actively make what is true.To be fair to Lanham, a pure weak defense or strong defense doesn't really work, and we should always be tactical. This is why I actually take your point re: empiricism and science. It doesn't make a whit of tactical sense to argue for flat earthism or anything like that, and so I don't think a deeply sophist thinker would actually defend it unless forced to in some form of "truth producing" game like a trial (i.e. defending a known pedo because your goal is ultimately to go through a process that leads to a conviction. Here, you're hoping to lose, but can't sandbag because that actually lets the pedo off).
To summarize, I think that if your categories of "weaker" and "stronger" are something closer to
weakerandstronger(in the sense that weaker and stronger are contingent in the strongest sense), then I think that we are closer to agreement than perhaps your post would make. After all, in this case, rhetorical processes (and also material processes, let's be :marx-guns-blazing: for a moment) shape the categories of "weak" and "strong".However, if your position is that no, there's absolute versions of "weak" and "strong," then you're on the side of the weak defense, and I just don't agree with that.
To quote Lanham again (because the analogy is entertaining)
If the art of rhetoric is merely the tools at our disposal, we impoverish ourselves from the creative and generative possibilities the Strong Defense opens up.
I sadly don't have time to write more, but I'm at least really enjoying our conversation (even with your barbs!). I'm entirely in earnest here, and would love to see your reply.
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