Got anything cool going on you want to talk about? Or maybe things haven't been so great? This is your spot to vent, unwind, whatever. Remember, you are loved :stalin-heart:

For me.....fuck where do I start? Working on opening up my relationship with the fiance a little. Initial talks on Monday were scary as fuck, but things seem positive. They have history with poly/ENM stuff whereas I do not, so letting them take the lead and I'm not saying anything again until asked to. Also started therapy yesterday! On the down side, I had a blunt talk with a close friend I've been crushing on for years, and I was rejected (for now). But, that puts some feelings to rest, so its kind of a good thing I guess?

Worst part is, we did not get to see Evil Dead. Gonna try and go tonight. One last good thing - I'm not being as drunkenly unhealthy this week since the news of my BP2 diagnosis has blunted a little.

  • thisonethatone [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    I got lucky on grinder. We hit it off during a date. He's an experienced older guy and he was really clear with his wants/needs and we talked out our boundaries.

    Find someone with good communication skills, is attractive to you, but different enough that they're not someone you'd want to partner with full time. If you're kinky, looking into a local munch is a good start.