Bro, I dress in ways I think are fun and cool to me. I thought that was normal.

I've never thought about if others find it attractive.

  • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    no, i don't really have a conception of the self like that. i dress the minimum for the weather and enough to avoid being accosted.

    we don't look at ourselves constantly when we dress high-effort so it's hard to get my head around the notion that the external signs and presentation aren't for others. I know some people wear makeup when they're home alone and not appearing on camera, so it's literally not for anyone else, but that just makes me wonder what society did to them that they feel the need.