Bro, I dress in ways I think are fun and cool to me. I thought that was normal.
I've never thought about if others find it attractive.
i mean, i do dress to appeal to others...
...but not the opposite sex :sicko-fem: :hexbear-lesbian:
I don't think this is even true for straight people, straight women basically dress for other women and straight men are instantly turned gay whenever they make a clothing related decision
It's true; I was indecisive about my wardrobe once, and I've been bi ever since.
Oh but I can't do gay stuff. Oh lord, but I am curious. Oh but I'm not gay right?
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I'm forever changed
I dress in the finest sweat pants to show my royal bloodline.
Yeah see but I find men attractive but I also want to look as androgynous as possible. So then only women hit on me :deeper-sadness:
People doing an androgyny generally make me a southern Belle with the vapors and assume someone as brutish looking as a cis dude looking person cause goddammit shaving takes time and stubble sucks for body hair seems outside of my grasp. They're already hooking up with other hot people.
I already think that I'm cool and fun.
I dress in whatever way fits what I'm setting out to do. :tequila-sunset:
Why is your tie telling me that I seem cool and that I shouldn't show up to the Federal Building in Oklahoma City tomorrow?
Correction, I never take off my necktie, even if undermines the rest of my fashion's goals.
No it's literally to make my malewife drool, everyone else is collateral damage
I wear clothes that are unassuming and muted because I don't like being perceived, and I want to wear fun bright clothes. Dialectics
i walk around with torn, dirty and oversized shirts in a mixture of lazyness, not wanting to buy clothes, and also copery hopes that i'll be slightly less likely to be robbed if i look like garbage
they are also just comfier :meow-coffee:
somebody told me I dress like the "modern equivalent of a medieval peasant" which I think was supposed to be an insult but tbh it's a total vibe for me :you-are-a-serf:
no, i don't really have a conception of the self like that. i dress the minimum for the weather and enough to avoid being accosted.
we don't look at ourselves constantly when we dress high-effort so it's hard to get my head around the notion that the external signs and presentation aren't for others. I know some people wear makeup when they're home alone and not appearing on camera, so it's literally not for anyone else, but that just makes me wonder what society did to them that they feel the need.
i don't really understand what that means or how it's separable from incorporating how we think a social group would react
33% to impress the other sex, 33% to impress the same sex, 34 to look cute for myself
