Why can't it be something fun like swapping surnames and then creating a portmaneau or blended name for the kids.

  • BasementParty [none/use name]
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    5 months ago

    There's a reason why gay marriage was such an important battle. Marriage is a legal contract that has numerous benefits including inheritance, right to decide care, visitation rights, and being eligible for benefits to name a few.

    It's not just a " piece of paper that says we're in love." It's a huge fucking deal that offers legal protection for your partner and yourself.

    • peeonyou [he/him]
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      5 months ago

      Hip hip hooray for bureaucracy!

      Honestly though, you oughta be able to just write it down on a notarized piece of paper without the state having any say in any of that.