Like they secretly hold mostly right wing views, but they want to hang out with the cool progressives. One of my ex friends blamed Corbyn for everything, even Brexit??? Another now posts anti Muslim stuff on FB regularly. A third is now a full on ecofascist who will just rant about black people like he's my demented grandma.
I recently learned that during the actual second wave there were a lot, not all, but a lot of radfems that openly, loudly embraced trans women and would shout down proto-terfs and chase them out of their spaces. Even the idea that feminist terfdom is part of the second wave is complicated and distorts history.