Sometimes, we eat during meetings - or rather, they eat. I can confirm from the food served and their willingness to eat it that very few, if any of them, are vegan. I always decline food but don't say why, but eventually, I'm sure someone's going to ask.

And that's the moment I've been dreading. I've been on Hexbear since it first went online. I've seen, firsthand, how much non-vegans - even the communists here, who have better politics than 99% of the people I know - fucking hate us. I'd go so far as to say at this point that I'd be more comfortable telling an average lib I'm vegan than I would a communist. At least the lib will probably just see it as a strange personal choice rather than accusing me of being a fifth columnist.

  • stinky [any]
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    2 years ago

    IMO, people irl are way nicer when you say you’re a vegan. It’s only online (and probably behind my back) that people say shit.

    Tell them you’re vegan. Be strong and unbothered by their questions, teasing etc. Don’t try to “convert” them, unless someone asks.

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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      2 years ago

      its part of the validation complex the internet produces, yea? as long as we're all posting we're never breaking the moralism death spiral.