i haven't looked at any in years but it used to drive me up the wall reading any relationship advice questions on reddit because they would go into excruciating detail about whatever is going on and why they felt it was a problem while also revealing they haven't talked to their partner whatsoever about any of this and then ask a bunch of anonymous socially-stunted internet nerds what they thought their partner was feeling or thinking based on their own description

and no one would ever respond with "maybe you should talk to them instead of us"