The issue is that "well my BF left, time to abort" is not nearly as easy as you imply. If you were wanting a kid and you agreed on it with the idea of having the father in your life, it is going to be painful having to make the choice to abort it because you can't handle it as a single mother.
Abortion is much easier on people who didn't want a kid anyway, it's still pretty emotionally tough on the people who do want children but just know they can't manage having one right now. An important choice for them to be able to make but it's not easy for everyone.
We can't just force deadbeat dads to hang around, nor should we, but things like child support at least provide some aid to the kid and discourage that fuck and dump attitude.
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The issue is that "well my BF left, time to abort" is not nearly as easy as you imply. If you were wanting a kid and you agreed on it with the idea of having the father in your life, it is going to be painful having to make the choice to abort it because you can't handle it as a single mother.
Abortion is much easier on people who didn't want a kid anyway, it's still pretty emotionally tough on the people who do want children but just know they can't manage having one right now. An important choice for them to be able to make but it's not easy for everyone.
We can't just force deadbeat dads to hang around, nor should we, but things like child support at least provide some aid to the kid and discourage that fuck and dump attitude.
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In a country with a good social safety net I'd be a lot more inclined to support male abortion yeah. Without it? No way.
I think we agree on a lot of the same ideas there otherwise.