It’s not about it being nonconsensual or irresponsible. Having a child is not a punishment for irresponsibility. It’s about someone who is not in a permanent medical situation causing someone else to be in a permanent medical situation. And saying, “well I wanted this person to die” is not a reason to not provide that support.

You are advocating for the effective abolition of child support within a patriarchal society. This is a gendered issue and therefore sexist. If you are not advocating for this in our current society, then you’re doing so irresponsibly and aligning yourself with people who do.