Yeah, I typically avoid using it just because the false etymology is so commonly believed. Kind of like how it's best to just not use the synonym for "miserly" that looks similar to the n-word, even though the two words aren't related at all. I sucks because that's not what either of the words actually mean, but language changes and perception changes with it. So here we are. I'll usually make a comment when someone says that either is a slur, but at the same time I avoid using them myself just to avoid giving offense. The centrist position, lol.
yes, this was my understanding of it as well. Interesting article here: https://www.law.com/newyorklawjournal/almID/900005387204/
Yeah, I typically avoid using it just because the false etymology is so commonly believed. Kind of like how it's best to just not use the synonym for "miserly" that looks similar to the n-word, even though the two words aren't related at all. I sucks because that's not what either of the words actually mean, but language changes and perception changes with it. So here we are. I'll usually make a comment when someone says that either is a slur, but at the same time I avoid using them myself just to avoid giving offense. The centrist position, lol.
Gives us a chance to make up NEW terms for use, terms that will themselves certainly be questioned by future generations. The joy of language!! :)