I was kind of passively monogamous until hooking up with a polyamorous woman on Tinder. I started a relationship with her and even though I made some attempts at dating other people, this mostly just became her having sex with other guys and me being involved with her exclusively. But I found out that I have zero jealousy, like none at all, as long as she had the time and attention for me. I found out a lot about myself that I didn't expect.
So, anyway, I wanted to create a thread about positive experiences with polyamory, due to a thread on the test instance.
I wish I could be friends with my ex, they're super monogamous but I never was except for that relationship. I still think we'd be good friends but obviously the emotional wounds for them are a little more intense and maybe it's because of the monogamy.