My friend is Hawaiin and he's struggled with the same things. I really wish I could do more to help. He is a great guy, a bit awkward (as you'd expect of someone who doesn't get to be around potential romantic partners a lot) and is genuinely a great person. Many of his friends are queer, and he's always been very anti incel. He too struggles with this same problem. If you're going to say this doesn't exist, especially in amerikkka of all places, then you need to get a grip on what intersectionality means.
In response to many of the comments here: "wow I can't believe the perdon who was ostracized when growing up and has minimal contact with romantic partners might be a bit awkward". If you are going to purely blame a systemic problem on the person then you should get off a communist/anarchist forum.
My friend is Hawaiin and he's struggled with the same things. I really wish I could do more to help. He is a great guy, a bit awkward (as you'd expect of someone who doesn't get to be around potential romantic partners a lot) and is genuinely a great person. Many of his friends are queer, and he's always been very anti incel. He too struggles with this same problem. If you're going to say this doesn't exist, especially in amerikkka of all places, then you need to get a grip on what intersectionality means.
In response to many of the comments here: "wow I can't believe the perdon who was ostracized when growing up and has minimal contact with romantic partners might be a bit awkward". If you are going to purely blame a systemic problem on the person then you should get off a communist/anarchist forum.