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electricaltape [none/use name] to menby • 1 year ago

It really do be tough for Asian guys out there...

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It really do be tough for Asian guys out there...

electricaltape [none/use name] to menby • 1 year ago
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  • DaringToday [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    That's a very rentoid thing to say

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    • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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      1 year ago

      HAHAHAHAHA ITS A LANDLO-NO, SORRY "PERSON OF LAND" TOO HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!! FUCKING APEX REDDITOR RIGHT HERE HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! :tito-laugh:

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      • DaringToday [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        You know most of the people on here can actually detect a joke.

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        • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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          1 year ago

          Yes, it's your existence

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          • DaringToday [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            And you call me the apex redditor 😭 im howling

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            • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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              1 year ago

              The apex redditor howls in front of the apple store at night when the apple logo is illuminated

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              • DaringToday [he/him]
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                1 year ago

                Good use of imagery

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                • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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                  1 year ago

                  Sorry kind gentlesir your compliment and updoot at my ability to describe your nightly activities is not enough, pay me in Bitcoin.

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