I made two posts on !anime@lemmy.ml, neither are visible on both instances lemmy.ml [http://lemmy.ml] are recommending. beehaw.org [http://beehaw.org] has already become a much bigger instance and they ban lemmygrad, we’re already invisible to half the people using lemmy. It will keep getting worse, at some point you’ll need to maintain two separate instance accounts and you’ll consider dropping one of them.
It's funny because it's mostly accurate, everyone here is so nice and friendly like 90% of the time but when something kicks off Hexbear users are vicious.
One thing we really need to teach people before federating is to be careful of overdoing it on other instances as if those instances decide that Hexbear users are always badly behaved they may just defederate.
One thing we really need to teach people before federating is to be careful of overdoing it on other instances as if those instances decide that Hexbear users are always badly behaved they may just defederate.
We really need to. Don't shit up other people's stuff. If it's a explicit chud instance, we probably won't federate with them anyways.
If users come to hexbear, it's fair game though. But don't be arseholes to well meaning people.
If users come to hexbear, it’s fair game though. But don’t be arseholes to well meaning people.
This is still going to be a problem because the hexbear posts will exist on their instance, and if they don't like what they see here then they'll defederate to remove the content from their instance. They may not always do this, they may just ban specific targeted powerful posters they dislike from showing up on their instance instead. But yeah, it's a kind of difficult ecosystem for the bipolarity that exists in friendly vs aggressive behaviour here.
True, but I think we'll also overlap a bunch on lemmy.ml and other instances like that, so we still need to behave ourselves there, even if the admins are friendly toward us on the whole.
I saw someone on there call us "feral posters", the way they see us is really funny to me
It's funny because it's mostly accurate, everyone here is so nice and friendly like 90% of the time but when something kicks off Hexbear users are vicious.
One thing we really need to teach people before federating is to be careful of overdoing it on other instances as if those instances decide that Hexbear users are always badly behaved they may just defederate.
lol good luck.
We really need to. Don't shit up other people's stuff. If it's a explicit chud instance, we probably won't federate with them anyways.
If users come to hexbear, it's fair game though. But don't be arseholes to well meaning people.
This is still going to be a problem because the hexbear posts will exist on their instance, and if they don't like what they see here then they'll defederate to remove the content from their instance. They may not always do this, they may just ban specific targeted powerful posters they dislike from showing up on their instance instead. But yeah, it's a kind of difficult ecosystem for the bipolarity that exists in friendly vs aggressive behaviour here.
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I long for the day I get a random notification saying I'm banned from a place I've never been to.
That was the essential r/cth experience
True, but I think we'll also overlap a bunch on lemmy.ml and other instances like that, so we still need to behave ourselves there, even if the admins are friendly toward us on the whole.
The lemmy admins were mercilessly ban us for even calling someone a single name they have an absurd level of tone policing.
We should hunt down chud instances and have one weekend a month where we federate with them and brigade with alts.
there;s no fucking way lemmy.ml will defed hexbear right?
they banned one of our beautiful admins
It was a misunderstanding
they got banned again lol
o7
a true poster :rat-salute:
Lmao
They won't defed but they'll ban everyone for even the mildest namecalling or posting :PIGPOOPBALLS:
You can have my pig poop when you pry it off of my cold, dead balls 😤
Joining a front and then splitting over rejecting civility could be the first actually leftist thing we do, and you want to stop it?
:walter-breakdown:
They fear our power :feral-hog:
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Feral is great because it implies we were once domesticated but got better.
:farquaad-point: furry
:side-eye-1:
:yes-hahaha-yes-l:
No Federation = Inside Cats
Federation = Outdoor Feral Cats
with how few people post on lemmygrad, the fact that we're posters at all is a good thing tbh
:programming-communism:
To exterminate the feral cats, you must become a feral cat.
really unfair to @Civility imo
😔
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Like that’s bad?
Federal posters
hey I think that was me! Or least I know I used that wording in a post I made on lemmygrad