:volcel-judge: :volcel-kamala:

housing benefits, money, childcare, and more!

    • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      You literally told another user here that unlike you who'd be living it up with all of your disposable income they were going to be b****ing about their kids endlessly to everyone like "everyone" who has kids does.

      Fuck off dude.

      • VILenin [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Everyone I know is miserable therefore you must be too

        • Vncredleader
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          1 year ago

          I make everyone miserable, therefore you must be miserable too

    • CloutAtlas [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      It comes off as a bit, idk, icky at best.

      Pregnancy isn't necessarily always planned, nor is termination of pregnancy available, nor would it be pleasant even if everything was ideal. If the parents want to air their grievances, I tend to let them without judgment.

      I have a friend with a kid who went through several different stages of grief about the pregnancy because the father of the child was "mean" (he'd call her the R word for making a mistake while speaking), and broke (he made roughly median income, a bit above, but spent half his pay on pokies).