So if I had some gay friends I could talk to them but I don't so I need education.
This sounds like something I would not enjoy, if only because I can imagine feeling bad later for what I would perceive as shutting down someone putting themselves out there. There's nothing for it, but I have been in a moment like this and afterward it gave me a lot of insight into how fraught this kind of interaction is for women too.
Idk, if you don't swing that way then it's not the same kind of rejection, because it's not a hurdle but a wall. I think most gay guys would know not to take it personally if they did ask, though they might feel embarassed and fear alienating you.
I believe you, but I'll admit the poor guy couldn't hide something painful about my rejection. I try to tell myself he might have just been on a losing streak but it just sucks thinking I might have ruined someone's day like that.
Edit: I should add he wasn't a total stranger, so I guess he might have gotten his hopes up about me from afar.
So if I had some gay friends I could talk to them but I don't so I need education.
This sounds like something I would not enjoy, if only because I can imagine feeling bad later for what I would perceive as shutting down someone putting themselves out there. There's nothing for it, but I have been in a moment like this and afterward it gave me a lot of insight into how fraught this kind of interaction is for women too.
Idk, if you don't swing that way then it's not the same kind of rejection, because it's not a hurdle but a wall. I think most gay guys would know not to take it personally if they did ask, though they might feel embarassed and fear alienating you.
I believe you, but I'll admit the poor guy couldn't hide something painful about my rejection. I try to tell myself he might have just been on a losing streak but it just sucks thinking I might have ruined someone's day like that.
Edit: I should add he wasn't a total stranger, so I guess he might have gotten his hopes up about me from afar.
Yeah, people can get very lonely and latch on to what they imagine is a way out.
An easy way to not be lonely is to rescue an animal 🥰