The rent is too damn high, can't have shit in California

They're gonna bury me with my badge volcel-judge

  • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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    5 months ago

    there's not a checklist of shit you need to check off to be ready for a relationship and/or having sex

    There kind of is. There is such a thing as being unhealthy enough that you shouldn't be fishing for that sort of thing.

    • peppersky [he/him, any]
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      5 months ago

      of course you might be in a state where you might pose a psychological or physical danger to any potential partner. there's a bar you can go below but I don't think there's a bar you need to rise above.