• zifnab25 [he/him, any]
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    1 year ago

    Its the old Alpha Chad versus Beta Cuck mythology that they've built up in their minds. You're either in the top 0.1% of getting laid by anyone who catches a glimpse of you or you're part of the 99.9% that has this miserable insecure sex life plagued by rejection and betrayal.

    They can't conceive of casual dating or romantic flings or the trial and error of sexual coupling. They're too segregated by gender and alienated from their peers to get their brains around how to just... meet people.

    And I'm sympathetic to that, to a degree. I struggled with dating all through high school and most of college. I didn't really get into it until I was living with a roommate and going to house parties and meeting big co-ed groups recreationally. I get the sense that these co-ed spaces have all been drying up and that's why people like this are coming out of the woodwork.