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    • JuneFall [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      I would like your tits, but somewhat the "l*ck of ...." didn't sit right with me cause it is something used to bully a former partner of mine in sexism.

      Self declaration is of course good and you can obviously phrase however you like. Did take a bit to figure out what was that felt slightly off.

      • machiabelly [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        so it sounds like you had a partner who had top surgery and got bullied by a variety of people for it. essentially larian studios gave dragonborn women top surgery in their translation of 5e to BG3. So the gamer seething that larian caused is the same fundamental emotion that led to your partner getting bullied. I guess using breast would've been a bit more clinical than tit. but they do have breasts, everyone has breasts, they just don't have mammary glands. So they needed a term that specified feminine breasts with mammary glands. Boobs and tits are actually the most specific terms they could've used.

        I also think the casualness of tit is helpful in communicating how silly the rage is. Like, its just two fatty deposits if you're that mad commission a furry artist. but the same casualness might've made you feel uncomfy which also makes sense given that its not a casual topic to you.