• TemutheeChallahmet [none/use name]
    hexagon
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    6 days ago

    The first step is teaching them to want something realistic, informed by what they feel deep down, and not dehumanizing so they can actually "wear it on their sleeve" when approaching a woman rather than feeling like it's a secret shame they have to insidiously spring on the woman at the moment her guard is down.

    • DesertComrade [he/him]
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      6 days ago

      You are right But I believe talking to real women will help them have realistic expectations. Or real people in general The Internet is a very toxic place.

      • TemutheeChallahmet [none/use name]
        hexagon
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        6 days ago

        Yeah I think people retreat to the internet to halt their trial and error process of learning how to court and be told it's okay to keep halting