• Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you're alone with a screen.

      actual sex is amazing, and I'm not apeing what my phone screen shows, I'm really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I've watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like

        • Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          I didn't day I was doing anything boss, this is a meme, and you have no idea what excites me, but it's not just pounding away as such. I'm not trying to argue with you, I just felt you were implying you know who I am and what I do when you really don't.

    • space_comrade [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I've never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.

      I mean I'm sure it happens but I don't think it's this epidemic people are making it out to be.

      Also don't watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.

  • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    What is there to see in the last 7 seconds? Isn't that just like perfunctory footage so it doesn't immediately cut off?

  • Cyberwitch_7493@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 year ago

    Really? Y'all skip all that? Idk, I like a good buildup sometimes. And when it comes to XConfessions and other artsy porn, I watch the whole thing after the intro.

  • blunderworld@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can't be good for us.

    • bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de
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      1 year ago

      I'm firmly convinced that it's bad for us. As is watching a dozen vids in one session and switching back and forth between them. It's possibly the most mentally damaging way of doing the whole thing. It's like TikTok. Imagine doing that with movies.

  • Interesting_Test_814@jlai.lu
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    1 year ago

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    (I'm exagerrating and understand creators must be paid in some way but this was my first thought seeing the graphic)