No problem!

It took a lot of time, and a lot of change. A few years ago I had a really bad job, no friends, and no family nearby to speak of. I had moved far away for a job for a fresh start, with no safety net. Conditions were unsafe, working hours were long with no overtime, and higher-ups were abusive. I had no safety net, so I stuck with it for a while to escape it.

Eventually, I met my partner while working there, a true sweetheart. I found a new job, we moved to a new city, got another fresh start, but this time I had a better career and a safety net. Things got better, got back to cooking and reading, and really was able to feel content.

Basically, a whole lot of luck, and the willingness and ability to get out.

One thing I want to stress is that there were several times where I felt hopeless and with no way out, but time passing really does change everything.

As for Malenia, she is a boss in Elden Ring, haha. I've had a bit of extra time lately and wanted to finally play it. Beat her last night, finally!