There's some guy I talk to who believes the theory that the top 20 percent of dudes get 80% of women, and that because he doesn't have a brad pitt jaw and isn't 6' +, he might as well just hate women because they'll never like him anyways.

  • bigboopballs [he/him]
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    4 months ago

    Go up and say hi, introduce yourself and feel things out.

    I am 100% guaranteed to humiliate myself if I do this.

        • GaveUp [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          Yea, but you'll never leave square 1 if you don't go up at all

            • LesbianLiberty [she/her]
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              4 months ago

              Yeah you will, as someone who's been both a man and a woman, I can tell you that you definitely will. We aren't some foreign creatures, we're people just like you. Dial back that anxiety, keep the ability to take a hint, and you'll do fine. To cringe is to grow!

              • bigboopballs [he/him]
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                4 months ago

                No, I'm on disability and it instantly makes every woman I talk to uninterested in me because I don't work. No way around it.

        • GaveUp [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          Here is the secret to picking up women

          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N7FVmeJXwCY