You'll feel it when it's time, that's really the only way lol

I told my first ex I loved them before we started dating, don't recommend that. Told my most recent ex I loved them after she said it to me first, and it was probably too early at a couple months and a handful of dates in but I was fine with it - I had wanted to say it earlier than she did.

I dunno, you just feel it. There's no like guide or whatever. It's like trying to describe what being sad or being angry is... you just feel you're in love and the time you say it is probably going to be the right time.

It's always good to both know how engaged is the other part, in case any would like to go slower (or faster I guess). And it's important to be honest at it, cuz maybe saying "I love you" sounds like you are probably exagerating right now. Sure, you feel a strong conection, but how much do you actually know the other person to tell then that?

So, tell them you are falling hard for them, but wait some (months? Weeks? Idk mate you just feel it lol