My gender is a performance I do for others so that I fit within the social role I desire. I just don't see enough of a difference to say that being a woman is something I do, rather than someone I am. It's both?
If you're interested in learning more about the performance and performstivity of gender identities, Judith Butler is a great starting point.
If you're interested in learning more about the performance and performstivity of gender identities, Judith Butler is a great starting point.